Too shy to try online dating
Calling yourself 'shy' - and even 'happy' could be turning off potential mates while describing yourself as 'curvy', if you're a woman, is more likely to lead to a dinner date.Unsurprisingly, it turns out both genders are looking for confidence in their other halves - so whether you're using an app or a website, shouting about your self worth is likely to work.An in-depth study of 400,000 profiles has revealed the words women and men use to describe themselves on dating profiles that turn the other sex off.But the results were not what singletons might have expected.Using the right photo is the easiest way to attract the right people. So spend 80% of your time on getting the photographs right and 20% on writing your profile.People are particularly fussy about looks when online dating.It will represent who you are throughout the site so something clever will score you points, while something raunchy will only attract the wrong type of people.
And your message box will be full of people who genuinely find you attractive. Remember: you are only as good-looking as your worst photo!
Conversely, just 0.3 per cent of men were attracted to women who boasted about being happy.
And it is not just men who apparently want to be able to make their partner content, rather than finding someone who is already feeling good about life - just 0.4 per cent of women were turned on by the idea of a happy man.
There are a lot of “don’t do this” checklists out there when it comes to online dating, and a vast majority of them condemn those who want some more naughty chats.
The kind you might not own up to with your friends, let alone family.